Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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Sexually abused as a chid

deleted_user
deleted_user
i have been sexually abused as a child for many years i got help for it when i was a younger i am now 21 and am having problems with relationships i find myself very controlling and getting angry and being verbaly abusive to my girlfriend this has been going on for 2 yrs now and we both find it is starting to get worse we both no i need help but i find it hard to talk with people who i do not trust i need to get all of this out so i can move on and have a heathy relationship is this posible?
deleted_user
deleted_user
yes it is possible, you can get better, just admitting you need help with this is a good start. I have a hard time talking about my abuse, but coming here is a good start. I wish you well, and don't give up.
scared4k
scared4k
This site is great help. There are some pretty good listeners. And they all seem to really care. Talking helps. Even if you dont say it out loud, just type it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
thanks for the advice means alot still dunno about all this its new to me but im giving it a shot
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good for you!! Trying something out to see if it works is always worth it, if in the end it helped even just a little.

You can get better...and I believe you will.
deleted_user
deleted_user
read the bulliten board, says read this may help.
Val
deleted_user
deleted_user
I use to be that way with guys cause of my childhood abuse sexually. I blamed all men of what happen as a child and relationships were not that good it had to be my way or the highway...

Until i met a speical man that became my hubby and he helped me out of this obession of hurting all guys when they did nothing to me.
So could be what your doing too.
deleted_user
deleted_user
thanks for that one as i find this women is going to help me because she is the only one i can truely open up to
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes, you can, counseling or group therapy may help. If nothing else, this site can be a great help. Good luck and be careful about taking it out on that girl of yours, who sounds wonderful.
deleted_user
deleted_user
my friend you are experiencing feelings that those assalts made you feel find someone who can teach you to understand why you feel this and how to stop if you need to your not alone.
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