
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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Hi i was abused/raped by my mothers bf at the time aged 12-14 and that was how i lost my virginty which iv always found hard to cope with, i guess over the years due to what happened to me iv been promiscuous and sex was a form of punishment to myself, id have no real feelings for anyone i had sex with but id keep doing it cos i thought thats all i was good for, im now 20 years old and now im in a loving relationship i have the opposite problem, i dont want sex EVER the thought makes me sick, i have no interest whatsoever i dont understand it?
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I understand. I was abused (raped) by my older brother and I started having sex with other men after my brother died, a sort of punishment for how I felt. But I am not Gay or Bi, but it is what I thought I deserved even though I hated him and hated every thing about the abuse. On the other hand I love my wife, but don't like having sex with her, or did not, until I worked on my issue. I connected sex with abuse and she was not an abuser, nor did I want to see her as such, so I did not enjoy sex with her.
If you associate, conciously or subconciously, sex with abuse, then you would not want to have sex with someone you loved.
The good news is that your are working thru the abuse. but it takes time and commitment.
Sex is a great gift that was meant to be shared and enjoyed. In time as you grow in your recovery sex can become very enjoyable as it was menat to be.
I wouldn't give up hope. Maybe just keeping in mind that your desire to enjoy sex will be a benenfit from recovery.
i hope this makes sense. you should read my journal.
Explain the connection there? Is it because mine was play and you ladies were forcefully raped?
Tom S. in Tn.