Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Lately I have been trying to understand why I still feel a need to please my parents. Now this is not to say that i do, but the very act of me trying to ignor them adds stress and causes guilt. For the life of me I cannot figure out why I am so brainwashed by honor thy mother and father that i cannot lay this down. To me in my world, it is to either live a lie, or dishonor your parents. I was just wondering if they have ever felt guilty about dishonoring me.
Just some things i think about.
Just some things i think about.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
While I have never been openly bitter with my parents for not do something, I do know that at some level I am anger with them. But this is tempered with years of experience and knowing that my parents just didn't know what to do back then.
my parents were good parents in so many ways and have given me so much that i have choosen not to blame them and chalk it up the times and they are just people too that didn't know what to do.
I am not sure but it sounds like your parents where the abusers? if so that puts it into a different catagory than me.
It sounds like you have a forgiving heart and it is in conflict with your anger. I think in time as you go thru the process you sort this out.
as for honor they mother and father. There are many ways to honor your parents. I don't think it was a blacket get out of jail commandment. and it is good you have the moral fiber to even be in conflict with this.
good luck