Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Lately I have been trying to understand why I still feel a need to please my parents. Now this is not to say that i do, but the very act of me trying to ignor them adds stress and causes guilt. For the life of me I cannot figure out why I am so brainwashed by honor thy mother and father that i cannot lay this down. To me in my world, it is to either live a lie, or dishonor your parents. I was just wondering if they have ever felt guilty about dishonoring me.
Just some things i think about.
Just some things i think about.
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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Has anyone tried these supplements? Do they give MGers more quality of life by improving memory and overall well being?Thanks!Barbel
While I have never been openly bitter with my parents for not do something, I do know that at some level I am anger with them. But this is tempered with years of experience and knowing that my parents just didn't know what to do back then.
my parents were good parents in so many ways and have given me so much that i have choosen not to blame them and chalk it up the times and they are just people too that didn't know what to do.
I am not sure but it sounds like your parents where the abusers? if so that puts it into a different catagory than me.
It sounds like you have a forgiving heart and it is in conflict with your anger. I think in time as you go thru the process you sort this out.
as for honor they mother and father. There are many ways to honor your parents. I don't think it was a blacket get out of jail commandment. and it is good you have the moral fiber to even be in conflict with this.
good luck