
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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The following are Three words that re-violate us. How many times have we heard these words.
we "should" forget it, and move on. (UUUUMMmm Why?)
We need to "forgive" them for what they did, they were sick. (they ARE STILL SICK, and so are the people saying this)
It's "over" now, why should we live in the past? (reality is, it only begins now)
Personaly ANY ONE person who uses any of these words is gone and out of my life forever, I dont care who they are.
we "should" forget it, and move on. (UUUUMMmm Why?)
We need to "forgive" them for what they did, they were sick. (they ARE STILL SICK, and so are the people saying this)
It's "over" now, why should we live in the past? (reality is, it only begins now)
Personaly ANY ONE person who uses any of these words is gone and out of my life forever, I dont care who they are.
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I always ask them if you lost a leg an arm or your eye sight would you be able to forget? I remind them that sexual abuse does damage at a level where it cannot be forgotten or sweept under the rug.
It's never over, it just goes on and on, some of us may learn to deal with it, but it's always there right below the surface.
At the same time, I have been through a couple of years of dealing with my past and I personally have come to move on, and that was my choice. I didn't do it for my abusers, I did it for me. I didn't forget my abuse, as I can face the fact that I never will forget, and that's okay.
I did it because I realized that the hate I had for them was hurting me. It never hurt or affected my abusers, but it led me to alcoholism and later to have major problems with my adrenal glands due to constant stress. I learned over a period of time, how and why I would deal with it.
I decided that I wanted to live my life like anybody else. I didn't want to carry the badge of 'abused' around with me, or even 'survivor' because I didn't want abuse to define me. That's why I moved on, but that doesn't give me the right to tell anybody else to, certainly not unless they tell me that they want to.
- stop it ok. im tryin 2 believe tht wen i gt the guts 2 stop this,it'l all go away. plz dont tel me it wont.
Ofcourse the abuse itself is over, yet there are aspects we come to terms with, and other aspects (like me living without my parents) I have to live with for the rest of my life. That is what it ment for me to write it as I did.
The fact is we each deal with our abuse in our own unique way, I for one hate that I went through too much including my childhood with out a father or mother.
And by all means you sound like a much stronger person then I, and I applaud you for that. I wish you a smooth road ahead... looking back and laughing at my stupid thoughts/comments.