I am all for an open forum where you can express your views. My only concern is when someone (not saying you) forms opinions so strong that they are trying to convince others that they are right and others are wrong.

i totally appriciate your opinion and comments.

As to phone sex. Do I agree or disagree with it no. I just don't do it.

As to preditors tryingn to find victems via phone sex i think is a mute point.

preditors do not need phones, internets, radios or anything else to find their victems. They will find them with or without phone sex.

I leave it as a personal choice to which each of have different moral standards we choose to live with.

If phone sex floats your boat then who am i to judge.

The world is a much smaller place and will continue to get smaller. Preditors are every where and I really don't think that they need phone sex to do what they do.

I think just another is right about all of that. The predators have been around for so long and never needed help to find people whether family or not. There is so many opportunities for the children to be touched. How do you keep a normal life for your kids when there is so much abuse out there. They are in such a hurry to have sex these days. Why???? They will be healthier for longer if they wait for sex until they are mature adults.

Phones sex isn't for predators to find victims. Phone sex for the most part is a BUSINESS that requires credit cards abd adults. So while I understand your view, it's really on the bottom of the list for predators and maybe you'd feel better staying out of those type of forums.

I agree with you. Phone sex is wrong. It's yet ANOTHER place for pervs.

I think it is really sad that because of peoples bad experiences they will jump to judge people as perv's or predators based on their sexual preferences. What people do, as long as it is consensual is not for any of us to judge. It does not mean that they are going to victimize anyone if they have what you think is a kinky sex life. We all have different likes and dislikes, sex is no different, so it's ok that you have a dislike for phone sex, but becareful not to judge others for their like of it.

^^^ I knid of thought the same thing. I mean watching adult movies, using phone sex, going to dance clubs...these are NOT things that sexual predators use. These are things "normal" adults use...men, women, doctors, lawyers, etc. So really....try to keep the two seperate. I know it's difficult, but you cannot lump ALL things sexual into ONE big bag of crap.

My BF and I often have phone sex (with each other that is) and there is nothing wrong with that as the intent is for healthy arousal between 2 ppl that love each other.

Basically I think it comes down to personal preference. I have had guys in the past (when I was single) try to talk dirty to me on the phone (not by my wish either) and I was somewhat sickened by it and told them to shut up.

Who really knows the mind of a sexual predator..and for that matter, who really wants to know (shudder). The cops told me that predators will try any method they can to get a potential victim but most "seasoned" predators usually stick to a particular method that works for them.

you're talking about those hotline things, right?

if so, i'm against it. yes, it's a place where guys and i guess some women can find their "happy" time...but it's still wrong. i feel it goes to their head and they start targetting people to fulfill their "happy" time for them for FREE.

did anyone hear about the news of making marriage to robots legal? supposedly they'll be making it legal within the next five years!

they also want to make children robots to give to pedophiles and all those horrible people doing nasty things to children as an experiment. they want to see if it brings down the crime rate of sexual assault against children...even if it's just a little. i'm totally against that as well. am i wrong?