
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
I do find it a little strange that she isn't comforting and there for you through this... is there more to the story that you would care to share with us?
My first reaction to this story is anger, honestly.
you were a victim. I can understand why she would feel upset by finding out so long after, hurt that you didn't confide in her sooner. Or even disappointed about the connection she thought you had, and did not. I can also see how you might be projecting your guilt and fears on her, But i just don't have enough knowledge and experience to judge these things, any of them. I wish i could give you better advise. But you did nothing wrong, and should not feel guilty about it. I think you should talk to someone, and possibly marriage counseling?
Explain to her the fears of telling someone you care about tht you have been abused. Tell her that you love her and need her tp trust you again that she is the only one you have told and that it was a big thing telling her now even after 6years.
You need to explain everything that you can to her so that she knows or has a feeling of why you kept it from her for so long. If she loves you like I think that you would love her then I don't think you will have any trouble with getting her to understand..
Update us on how things go for you k!
Best of luck!
Reen
She has to understand that you couldn't help the fact that you were abused and you were too scared to tell her.
Make sure you are as open as you can be when it comes to it ok
Give her time and she will back to being all yours!
Reen xx