Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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My sexual abuse ramblings.

deleted_user
deleted_user
Being a victim of sexual abuse is rather difficult for us to contain and to handle. I had made sure that it was buried as I tried to continue life as a normal individual. Anytime I would have a flashback or was arnd the abuse conversation, my blood would boil and many thoughts and feelings would spiral arnd in my head. I'm currently on a very long and dark path, which i call my journey of healing.

But the counseling and the medications do not take away the flashbacks, nightmares etc.
It sux having to experience sexual abuse at all, being stripped of something, and tht something that can never be replaced.
Life is and can be cruel, but it takes us as real people, to stand up and say "hey, I need help"
Thank u for taking the time to read my ramblings.
rainyangel
rainyangel
It's not rambling, it's talking and good for ya. Anyway, feeling and thinking about the abuse and getting it out of you is the best thing to do I think. Trying to bury it doesn't heal it. That's it just keeps popping back up and making you crazy. It wants to be healed.Yea sexual abuse can't f you right the f up. It's amazing how much. Your trust, your sexuality, ability to have normal relationship etc. take care and good luck
deleted_user
deleted_user
Don't make the same mistake that I did. I never felt ashamed or guilty. I knew it wasn't my fault. However, I stuffed it deep inside. I didn't deal with it because I didn't know how. Now I am 40 and having to deal with it for real due to circumstances. It must be done so I recently started counseling and am hopeful. Take care and know I will be praying for you.
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