Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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me an abuser?????

deleted_user
deleted_user
A week ago the SP stopped by my house. Said someone hotlined k. Ok. that is a good thing . someone is looking out for my daughter. Today someone from child protection shows up and says they have to at least talk to me. some one is looking out for k.... NOOOOOO. someone turned me in for grabbing him shaking him when I found them. LIKE I ABUSED HIM THAT DAY>..... I said yup I did, the only reason he is still walking today is because K said I was scaring her so I let him go. Told th cp guy I hit him too. he said they have talked to the person who filed this and told them this was to be expected. Gee..... I hope it wasnt his parents wanting to get me in trouble. Cuz if I hear anymore about this I will tell anyone listening why I hit him. And all that I have learned since then.HES A PERV>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm sorry. this was written under my daughters page. I am scared4k. I wrote this under wrong name. Ellie
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh my GOD. You need therapy. hitting and shaking is abuse. I am sorry for you and your kids.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Who is the "him" that was shaken and hit? An adult? An abuser? The story is confusing and might have caused the last person to reply to believe that you shook and hit a child. In any case the abuser should not be allowed into the home with K. it's bad for her and you. Please tell EVERYONE why you hit him so you can get rid of him for the sake of K!
scared4k
scared4k
pale is my daughter. I wrote that discussion by mistake on her page. I am scared4k. My daughter was abused. I found my 13 yr old nephew on top of her. It was him I grabbed and hit. Please read MY profile. Sorry for the confusion
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey now, I know most of the story only K and her cousin know all of it. These two are two of my best friends and nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo way no how are you an abuser, you saw your daughter being taken advantage of and you reacted, a one time thing and abuser repeats the abuse for no reason at all, and you flipped out as all respectable adults would and I commend you for that. YOU have been your daughters biggest advocate and you deserve a BIG pat on the back for that, I know that it was tramatic at the time for your daughter to witness what she did, but the action in itself speaks volumes for your character and will be burned into her memory for ever...that her mommy loved her enough that even if it is mommies sisters son that is hurting her then she will care enough to react, loose it, flip out, something to show disapproval, my parents protected my abusers and minimize what they did to me, and in addition my daughter was molested the night that my son was born and I trusted who I had left her with, it happens, if I had not been in labor and I had instead walked in and caught any one I dont care who....I would have lost it and killed them and done my daughter no good in jail...getting shook would have been thoes boys least of their worries......
Juice
Juice
Oh My God! I'm so angry for you.If you'd been a member of the public walking by and ignored it the whole world would be on your back!!! Whoever reported you is spiteful and malicious. I feel so mad!! What the hell kind of system is it that penalises a mother for protecting her child from a sexual predator?
If it was his mum, she's in serious denial. I'm so glad the CP bloke saw sense, but furious that they even thought it appropriate to visit you. Talk about rubbing salt into the wound.
GRRRRR!
scared4k
scared4k
hubby said the cp guy said it wasnt the parents. All I can figure is perv told "some" of it to someone. They didnt know the whole story so they thought I was abusing him. Oh well. guess theyll know now.
Juice
Juice
I'm glad to hear that. Maybe it's worked out well in the end then? Hope you're OK.
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