Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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leave me alone if his not here im dreaming he is

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I feel like i going crazy i separted from my husband in feburary and he sexually abused me in march. Since then he won;t leave me alone he calls and turns up when he likes. I ve put avo out on himSo he leaves me but i have been having night mares about him chasing me and i wake up so scared. How do i move past this? Why can't i just get some decent sleep? Is it posible to move past this and forgive him as well as my father like every one tells me too.
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Get a restraining order taken out against him (not sure what you guys call them over there...an AVO?)

Just because you are still legally married does not give him the right to treat you in an abusive manner and take advantage of you. It's still domestic abuse/spousal abuse. Don't tolerate it and don't be silent about it either.......no-one has the right to treat you like that.
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thanks and yes overhere there called avo's
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I am so sorry for your seperation. it is very difficult. But you sould not have to live in fear. You have every right to feel save and i the ex to be is being abusive and stalking you then you should really consider getting avo. state side we call them restraining orders and violating them in the smallest of ways usally means an arrest.

Sorry for your trouble and pain. i hope things get better for you.
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Do what you need to do with the law and only forgive if you ant to. If that helps YOU move forward...then do it. But know you don't HAVE to.
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