Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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I keep thinking that mayb if i didnt get sexualy abused that my life would be a lot easyier to handle. Mayb i would still be with my xbf if i could trust. its like with any1 i meet im waiting for them to let me down so i dont trust. everyone i have every trusted has fucked me over. ive had enough. Its like im waiting to go off the edge. im waiting to go mad. i just want a nomal life back. i want my child hood. he has wrecked everything!
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There really isn't any point in thinking about how your life would be different. The fact is you were sexually abused. As harsh as it sounds, wishing for that to be changed is not going to accomplish anything. Your only option is to accept it and get treatment.
Speculation on how your life would be if it didn't happen, I think, is only going to make you feel worse about the fact that it did happen.
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One of the terrible results of abuse is the difficulties in trusting anyone ever again.

I wouldn't think to much about the "what if" senario. I think it is ok to wonder but only to the point of were it helps u understand what happened. If it isn't helping by thinking about the "What If" then I would consider replacing the "What if" with "What now" thinking.

You can't go back. I think the "What if" thinking holds a lot people back and keepss them more closely tied to the abuse.

i am not sure it this has made sense?

at any rate. take care of yourself
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