
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Speculation on how your life would be if it didn't happen, I think, is only going to make you feel worse about the fact that it did happen.
I wouldn't think to much about the "what if" senario. I think it is ok to wonder but only to the point of were it helps u understand what happened. If it isn't helping by thinking about the "What If" then I would consider replacing the "What if" with "What now" thinking.
You can't go back. I think the "What if" thinking holds a lot people back and keepss them more closely tied to the abuse.
i am not sure it this has made sense?
at any rate. take care of yourself