
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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My exboyfriend raped me 3 times (once whilst i was unconcious as i was having a seizure at the time). as a result i became pregnant and then lost the baby at 13 weeks. I was devastated but noone apart from a few close people knew not including my family. Meanwhile the guy who did this is still in touch with me because he is in a circle of friends i keep in touch with. He married one of my close friends and i never told her what happened. She is now pregnant with his "1st child". Them togethr never bothered me but this does because i just feel jealous in some ways but also suppose slightly worried for the unborn child. i know people can change and i would love to believe that he has but i cant help feel he may harm one day someone else he "loves".
He has said on many ocassions if i take him back he would leave her because he loves me. NO chance is the answer. Is this feeling of jealousy normal. What makes it worse is i have been told i cant have children any more due to a health condition i have developed. Life just seems unfair at the moment i suppose. He's happy getting on with life and i seem to be stuck.
Just needed to vent i suppose
He has said on many ocassions if i take him back he would leave her because he loves me. NO chance is the answer. Is this feeling of jealousy normal. What makes it worse is i have been told i cant have children any more due to a health condition i have developed. Life just seems unfair at the moment i suppose. He's happy getting on with life and i seem to be stuck.
Just needed to vent i suppose
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Deb
He is in the same circle of friends and that really complicates it.
Being stuck seems to be common theme and I believe opening up as you have will be a good first step. I think in time you will find a way to deal with horrible person in a way that helps you move.
As far as his wife goes, i don't know if she is in danger or not but I doubt it will be long before she realizes what this guy is about.
take care of yourself.