Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

3,188 Members
16,216 Posts
0 Online
Personal Challenges
/ Sexual Abuse Support Group

It keeps coming back..

deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm fine for a while and then all the memories start pouring back in. My head is just fill with all these memories and I see their faces everywhere. Everything just seems to remind me of it.

I cant talk to anyone. No one would understand..
deleted_user
deleted_user
We all understand. We all struggle with those feelings too. Do you need some support?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thank you. I don't know who to talk to. Everyone I've told has either called me a liar or has taken advantage of me being upset.
deleted_user
deleted_user
We all have the same problem so we understand you. You are not a liar because you don't need to lie. Why would you need to lie. We are not going to take advantage of you. We all sufer the same pain so we understand you.

I send you my uncoditional love to you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
talk to us here. I don't talk to my friends about this stuff yet. but ppl here really understand a lot of what i'm going through. there's nothing you can say that will scare us away okay?
*hugz*
we're here for you
deleted_user
deleted_user
Just be glad that you can come here and talk!! I wish there had been a place for me to go to talk after I was abused, but I kept my abuse secret for 17 years. My abuse happened when I was between 7 - 10, and sometimes there are still things that remind me of it, but not as much anymore. With time, it does get better. Keep talking!! People here do understand!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thanks. I tried to talk to my friends about it but they didn't understand. My boyfriend is amazing but he doesn't really understand either. Can you ever erase it completely? I just want it gone.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I can't get it out of my head.. It's been nearly 3 years. I thought i was coping, but I'm not.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I feel that way too. It's gotten better though. There will always be those things that remind you. I don't know if it will ever go away completely. Things haven't for me yet, but they do get easier with time. I used to relive memories all the time but that has gotten better. People who haven't experienced what you have or anything similar won't understand. But everyone here does. It might help you to talk to some people about what you are remembering. I have a feeling that the best way to get the memories to go away is to deal with them.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Those things pop up everywhere. His name and face seems to be every where I look.
It's gotten easier for me too. I have my good days and then my bad. Everyday use to be a bad day.
I don't wish this on anyone, I just wish they'd understand.
Thank you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
we have all been there so often. are you in counseling.
deleted_user
deleted_user
no.. i've had bad experiences with it in the past i'm not ready to try it again
Posts You May Be Interested In
  • irishwriter

    come unwind in the bp lounge

    Posted by: irishwriter
    Last Reply: kisses2016
    7992
    theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
  • Rizen

    Walk a Day

    Posted by: Rizen
    Last Reply: mujicaptsd
    2570
    I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...