i think it is, i mean i ued to dream about it too, i think its your sub-conciounce that wants revenge for what he did to u thats all
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J
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I think it's much healthier to have those thoughts than to get lost in the memories of the abuse.

Both my sister and I have dreams and daydreams about killing our abuser. We talk about it and we actually laugh sometimes about the various ways to do that. I think when someone tries to kill your soul - you get to have day dreams about returning the favor.

As to being normal - what they did to us was not normal and I don't think we need to adhere to a set of rules that governs normal behavior. i say day dream away - with gusto!

Oh hell yea. Torture them, kill them, out them to the world, all a very normal part of dealing with it....the fantasies or dreams of doing so.

hell yeah i used to even daydream about it.. i had everything all planned out. its completely normal for you to have dreams about this.

youre not crazy, not a freak and not anything else.. youre dealing with it healthily =]

I think that this is a healthy thing to do. I'm not quite there yet. When you day dream that you can kill him, it means that you are in control now instead of him. You know that he can't hurt you anymore and that you can stand up for yourself. I don't feel that strong.

i think it's normal. i never have done it about the person who abused me but i have had many many fantasies about very specific tortures and deaths for my daughters' abuser. and 15 yrs later, i still think about it.

I went through a period several years ago where I did the same thing..... I think I wanted justice, I wanted him to feel pain like I did for all of those years and still do from time to time, I wanted him to admit what he did, etc. Thank god they are just day dreams, fantasies, whatever you want to call them. As long as you don't act out, you haven't crossed the line. Just my perspective. In my eyes and heart you are very normal.

it was just a dream but it seems you have alot of anger with in you that may be triggering this dreamordreams .

I daydream all the time about killing him and it makes me smile lol

My mother was my abuser along with my older brother. They took turns hurting and degrading me. I wished them dead over and over. Now they are both dead of heart disease and I want to resurrect them and kill them again!