Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
I always allow people to talk me into things that I know aren't right. Or maybe it's because I really care about what my sister thinks...but this time I went back and things aren't better. I wanted to make things work for my daughter but I feel like we're tip toeing around still.
Supposedly we had sex last night and I don't remember having sex with him. I really don't remember much about last night. He said that it was great...and he's never said that before.
He's not letting me out of his sight...he even hired someone to be here when he's not. So I am not sure what I am doing or what he's up to.
I think that it's going to be even harder for me to get out this time. It's like I am so scared of him. I can't stand for him to touch me. I am always afraid that he's going to do something to our daughter because he's always talking about sex and he's always showing someone is penis...I don't know, maybe I am over reacting, but I really messed up this time...I am freaking out.
I think he's back now and I really don't want to deal with him.
Supposedly we had sex last night and I don't remember having sex with him. I really don't remember much about last night. He said that it was great...and he's never said that before.
He's not letting me out of his sight...he even hired someone to be here when he's not. So I am not sure what I am doing or what he's up to.
I think that it's going to be even harder for me to get out this time. It's like I am so scared of him. I can't stand for him to touch me. I am always afraid that he's going to do something to our daughter because he's always talking about sex and he's always showing someone is penis...I don't know, maybe I am over reacting, but I really messed up this time...I am freaking out.
I think he's back now and I really don't want to deal with him.
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Thats a bizarre situation u are in but it sounds really bad. He sounds controlling and possessive and if u dont remember having sex with him were u drugged or have u blocked it out of ur mind. I think u need to get out and work on yourself. You need to build up ur self-esteem and self-respect. Ur partner also needs to work on his problems before he is in a relationship with u. He is obviously insecure and probably also has self-esteem issues. This is not a good situation for your daughter. I dont know if ur daughter is at risk from her dad. Just because he is very sexual Im not sure that equals child abuser.
If you cant get out for yourself..do it for ur daughter. Be a good role model for her. Show her that her mum is strong. If you think she is at risk u must put her first, u must protect her.