Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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i told her but shes not helping..

this2willpass
this2willpass
i just told my friend what happened and basically shes not said anything helpful, just asked me if i still see him and that i should go talk to someone, im shaking so much its hard to even write this. just a hug would be good! thanks xxx
this2willpass
this2willpass
aw ok, she is helping, i think i shocked her... look what she said..

Lauren says:
just dont try to be so brave all the time...you dont hav to go thru things alone
Lauren says:
its ok to need a little help
Lauren says:
every1 does at sum point in there lives
Lauren says:
its what makes us human


i love my friends so much!
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deleted_user
those of us who haven't been through it don't really know what to say; sounds like she's doing a pretty good job.
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she is a good friend and yes it was probably difficult for her to hear and digest. I am sure after she thoght about it she was able to come and talk with you. this is pretty shocking stuff for anyone who has not been thru it.

she sounds like a keeper.

stay strong and hang in there.
this2willpass
this2willpass
yeah she's always been a keeper! im glad she knows but i dont know what to do now, i guess i should explain more to her, cos we were talking and she said did you get raped, and i said yeah but it wasnt detailed, i was trying to explain to her why i cut myself because i know she doesnt understand that, and i just wanted her to know that there was a reason.
she knows i have problems with my dad, so she thought it was him, which it wasnt, but i didnt tell her it was my cousin, i think thats what i want to tell her, cos then i guess or i hope she'll understand why i didnt tell, but i cant guarantee that so im just gonna go for it.
this is probably the most scary thing ive ever done in my life, i cant beleive i told her, im glad, i want to talk it out with her cos she said its cool to talk about whenever im ready.
i love her so much, i dont know how anybody else would have reacted and i dont know why she's the person i trust, cos we only really got to know each other last year, but she is that person and i love her for it.
i wish i could talk to someone else, i wish i could talk to my mum so much, i wish society would look after people like us, i wish that it wasnt such a secret. i wish someone would talk about it!
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