Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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I'm having a hard time dealing with guys, and sex.

LitScholar
LitScholar
Iv'e been back in the dating scene for a few months now after not being a part of it (period) for more than 4 years. And it's scaring the crap out of me. I don't think that I am that experienced do to being so afraid of any kind of sexual connections with men. And when I do begin to get close physically, I usually stop right away and panic, and afterwards, I feel, kind of dirty, like needing to shower immeidiatly. I am having a hard time getting past this, anyone ever experience this? Or know a way to work past it?
kayrl
kayrl
hey i know what you mean. i know i'm 16 but even just kissing guy's makes me feel dirty. and sometimes i have gone a lil firer than that but i know i feel dirty and feel that i need to shower and i feel discusted in myself like i can't believe i did that. so i know where your coming from and srry i don't know how to help because i still don't know how i just don't date right now till i do. i think why we feel that way is because we haven fully excepted what happend and that stuff. best of luck
deleted_user
deleted_user
TAKE YOUR TIME,THERE IS NO HURRY.JUST WAIT UNTIL U R COMFORTABLE,DON'T LET WHAT HAPPENED DESTROY YOUR EMOTIONS FOREVER,WHEN U DO THE WRONG PEOPLE SUFFER,U HAVE SUFFERED ENOUGH.WE ARE HERE TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND TALKING HELP ESPECIALLY WITH THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN THERE.BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE HAPPY,IT ALL TAKE'S TIME,
LOVE TO ALL, SEMPERSUGAR
deleted_user
deleted_user
I had a similar experience a while ago. . I've never dated, so i can't give you any insight into that. But i do know that you cant rush these particular things. No matter how much you just want to get over it and get on with you life
in other words, just listen to Semper's words of wisdom, those who have lived longer than us are always better at these things
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