Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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I am so sad, my heart is breaking.

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How is it possible that my heart can still break and cause so much pain even after being broken so many times. how is it possible that he pain can be so real and feel so fresh like this stuff just happened. how is it possible to keep breathing when this pain just makes me want to die. how is it possible that i am in so much pain and no one notices...........I want to cry out loud like some close to me has died.........i want to scream "its not fair".
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I am so sorry that you are having to walk through this garbage. I would say cry if you want to cry, let the tears come when they come. Scream if you want to scream and as loud as you need it to be. The only way to heal is to get it all out! I am hear if you need to talk. You are not alone in this.

Hugs, Leanne
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No, sweetie, its not fair. I'm so sorry you have to be on this painful path. I agree with Leanne about crying and screaming if you want. Get it out. You need to be good to yourself and have some of your needs met. I'm here too if you need to talk.

peace and love ... Kyle Anne
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Because what has happened to us is not fair. I am going through the process of taking my abuser to court, every time I have to read my statement and check it for errors it is like going through it again. I am so sorry that you can not sit down with someone and just have a say/talk/bitch about it. I am hoping by taking him to court I can hand the garbage back to him. Have you a therapist or someone you can talk to, it does help at times. Big Hugs Sharon
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hi,
sorry you are suffering. have something happened to trigger this or is this just an ongoing thing for you. Are you in therapy or taking meds? some ppl say emdr is good. I think we all need to keep trying things until something helps us heal and then stick to it.
I really hope you will feel better in time.
take care
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Scream, cry, hit a pillow what you feeling IS normal although unfair. i forgot are you seeing a therapist, how about Journaling? Whenever i write an entry i try to be as real and honest as i can. thinking of you!!
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Thank you so much you guys. i reay appreciate you guys taking the time to respond. Love and hugs.
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