
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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I got into a fight with my mother today. See while I was in the hospital, my boyfriend is the only one who came to see me. And she wants to know why I am mad at my brother. She tells me that I am being selfish. And that I should just let go. She says to me that "Amy...that is your problem...you always hand on to the bad stuff" And all I wanted to do was yell at her and tell her that if it werent for her I would not even be in this situation. And that it is her fault that I am all messed up. I am still mad at her for something that happend years ago. I just cant stop, when I close my eyes...all I see is her standing in the corner watching me being hurt. And all I can do is be mad
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You have the right to be angry...and letting it go is just not an option.
Maybe consider setting some limits and boundaries with her...your mental health is of utmost importance.
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I was in anger stage for awhile, but now I'm just at the crying alot stage, I guess.
The problem, is when other people look at you, they think you can just put the past behind you with the wave of a magic wand. My dad especially is the same way. I don't think its denial necessarily, because they know what happened, they just don't think you should dwell on it, and just suddenly forget about what happened, like we can really do that. sheesh.
Its just because they don't understand is all. They don't understand how traumatic it was for us to go thru it. What they don't understand, watching someone go thru it, is much less traumatic then actually being thru it, so your right, they will never understand, and if they tell you that, I'd just ignore what they say, thats what I do with my dad and mom, because they don't understand, and never will.
I don't always like to talk to counselors, as much as I do God, because counselors, even though they don't say much, ask you questions before your even ready to talk about things, and its like, well, sometimes its nice just to talk to someone who doesn't say anything back. it has helped me a great deal over the years get me past alot of those anger type stages.