
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
For me, the person I now think I abused me... If it is who I think, I just can't hate him. He's paying the ultimate price for his sins now.
I realized that i had all I wanted from him. He was found out, he aplogized and he couldn't hurt me anymore. everyone knew, so i decided that what wanted was for the damage to our large family to stop over this issue. I know it is strange i never stopped loving my brother, i just wouldn't let myself feel it for a long time. In as much he definately was sick for what he did and i believe he is reformed. since me it has been 30 years and i have a very big family five bro. five sis. Our family couldn't keep a secret if a life depended on it. So in the end i just came to a point where healing the family was more important than always displaying open wounds.
Life is never black & white, it is always shades of gray, and this is a prime example of that theory. What I find even more heartbreaking is that people would destroy their lives by taking the life of their abuser, not that I don't feel they have it coming, but they have enough to live through and deal with, taking a life isn't something they need to add to the list.