
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Sorry I couldn't be of more help, but know that you will get through this.
I deal with my abuse all the time...and I mean more on an emotional level. Only one of my cases was ever brought to my parents attention early on. The ones after...not until recently. I've been lost for years.
You were given a life sentence.Thats what I feel about myself.You are not to blame,the shame is his not yours.I wish I could say that there will be a day when you are able to think about your abuse and not feel the same pain over and over again.I am 42 yrs old and 2 yrs ago I dealt with it.It split my family up for a while who believed me and who believed my brother etc.
I have learned to cope with it by joining sites like this.I even started an abuse site on myspace.Check it out www.myspace.com/myamazingjourney
I went to a place called s.a.f.e I went to group therapy,just hearing that others have the same feelings and hang ups that I do helped me a lot.Just knowing that I was not the crazy one,that I didnt ask for it or deserve it.Im reading a book now and it says to commit the same amount of time healing as you spent hiding.I hope it doesnt take me 30 yrs to heal.Everyday gets a little easier.BUT I also relied on God a lot. I can only do things in small steps.
My advice?
Take baby steps and walk with your head up high.You are strong,the weak could not endure what you have.
Take care and God Bless you
Im here if you need an ear.
Kathie
p.s Hope this helps you!