Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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hi a problem has come back to haunt me tonight . my father who sexually abused me is in a nursing home for the past 6 years i havent gone to see him at all my aunt has giving verbal about not seeing him but she doesnt know wat he done should i tell her and how PLEASE HELP
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hi ,, sorry to hear about ur dilemma ,, and im sure this will b of no use but i think you are the only person who can make that decision ,,, but if u just want to chat feel free to message me ,,xx
Juice
Juice
It was a close friend of the family in my case, and I couldn't tell my family until my grandmother had died as I knew it would destroy her. I suppose I took the easy way out, and delayed telling them until it was safe to. I took all the criticism about not visiting him while he was dying on the chin, because I knew in my heart I was doing the right thing. Your aunt may think you're being uncaring, but I suppose you have to consider how hurt she would be if she found out what her brother had done. Having said that, you are the most important person here.
I know I've probably added to your dilemma, but I wanted to share my experience of how I chose to deal with it to let you know I got through it in one piece.
I really feel for you, and hope you find peace of mind.
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