Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
ok my nice is 7 years old (shes my life and im hers). She is getting abused physicaly, emotionaly and is being neglected by her mother. I cant stand up to her nother cuz im even tarrified of her (she was abused by her father when she was a child and shes doing it to both her child my niece and nephew) my nephews not so bad he doesnt get it as much as my niece and when he gets it his mom relizes it and stops but wont stop with my niece. My niece fliches she her mom lifts her hands or anything, she jumps when her name is called or when her mom walks into the room, she has lost alot of wait cuz her mom calls her chubby and tells her that she cant do this and that right (my niece is an perfect student and can do anything great she can even sing). When i go and vist them she wont let go of me for like 2 hours and wont let me out of her site (i have been her second mother sense she was born sense my sis in law didnt no how to take care of her i was 12 at the time) when i leave her house she has a tantrim saying no no stay dont go and stops her feet and grabs on to me. i try to bring her out to my house as much as i can but because i am 45 min from her that is hard to do so often. I no shes not gtting sexualy abused wich it great but really the abuse needs to stop shes exactualy like me when i was little and i dont want her to be like me she has so much going for her, she sings she dances shes so much smarter then me at her age. If i could i would get her to live with me, its just hard with me working ful time and going to school. but i no if it doesnt change i want to take her and her brother if i could. I donno how can i help her? when i was there like 2 months ago she hair was the length of mine her mom grabed her and cut it off cuz she wouldnt let he mom brush it she wanted me to brush it. and then like 4 months ago her mom put dish soap in her mouth cuz she apparently lied about something when she didnt i was watching her. ugh i donno what to do!
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Everyone in school found out about my bedwetting. How do I face everyone???
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So I have been dealing with a lot lately, my husband and I just had a baby 2 months ago. Anyone knows how hard it is, on top of that we have a 5 year old. I am a stay at home mom, and love it. Things for us have been going south lately, and he hasnt been himself so I knew something was up. I have talked to him, and he calls me crazy for thinking anything. I accused him of cheating the other week...
i wish i had more info to give you...i'm sorry i don't...
she was also a drug addict ad an alochaulic in the begining, no one ever exspects this of her...she's got a great carreer and a nice house.
She used to bring me to crack houses and everywhere else she went when fiending, this is when i was sexually abused. so many bad places, it kills me to know that she didn't care about her little baby enough to just leave her with her parents.
so now that she's clean she's still a mess...diagnosed with all sorts of mental illnesses... we lived in a bad neighborhood...where men would repeatedly stop and try and ask me how much, or pick me up. [age 12]
when she was angry with me she would take my shoes....and pants and throw me outside....in any weather or time. we lived on the highway where the men would try and pick me up fully dressed at the bus stop. There is no point going into the verbal abuse. I was secretly self injuring as long as i can remember... and not a living sole knew...no matter how much i luved or trusted them, i didn't want them to go away or dislike me.
how do you know what's going on with these kids?
if they are really being abused....pls help them. I understand that she will be far from you, and that will hurt you. To this day i wonder why no one ever stopped her, why no one ever helped me. From what i understand foster homes can be even worse. The only advise i can give is to talk with the other ppl in your family who can help them. It would be impossible for you to do this alone. And you shouldn't try, your a 19 yr old girl...it's hard enough to take care of yourself. this is heart breaking...i'm so sorry
jndoe: I no whats going on with these kids one they are my niece and nephew, 2 my niece is my best friend, 3 im there baby sitter, 4 its my sisterinlaw and iv seen her in the act so many times.
I may be 19 but im not the typical 19 year old. I have never been to a party never done drugs i hardly drink maybe like 1 time a month not even. I live on my own i manage money perfectly, i have no bad credit i mean i paid for my own trip to eroupe when i was in grade 12. If i want something i dont let it hold me back. My nieces and nephews are the most important things in my life. If i had Jordyn expessialy taken away from me and never see her again i would go nut and end up in a mental house maybe worse...
anyways on a different note shes coming out tonight to spend the weekend with me. Im taking her shopping with me tomorrow to get her new clothing that is in need as her under garmets are from when she was 2 and shes now 7
i still consider myself to be a bit younger then i am, as i am just finishing college now. Most of my friends are at least few yrs younger then me, and i forget how different i really am.
it is just my hope that my story will somehow help you on your way to finding these answers you've asked in this post. I didn't mean to insinuate that you are incapable.
I know how hard it is for me to take care of myself right now, and i consider myself lucky when it comes to life. I also know that i take on too much sometimes, and i can only give advise from my perspective.
So i don't mean to criticize you, it is very clear how much you luv these guys.