
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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Okay. Stats say if you abuse you were prob abused right. (Again NOT if you were abused you will abuse) My nephew (12 when it started, 13 when I found them) abused my daughter. Should I tell my sister this fact. She prob doesnt know this stat. I do because I have read alot about sex abuse. My husband and his brother were abused by their father. (Whole diff story) BUT when I tell her this stat. she is immediately going to blame hubby. Because of above mentioned misconception. I've always thought her husband was a really good guy? But it could be him. I'm scared about this. I know I should hate the nephew but this thing keeps me from doing that. I love my daughter. I will do whatever it takes to protect her. She has no contact with him. But I'm scared for him.
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if she needs to be educated on the stat then give her some reading material. I don't think this has to be all that dramatic unless this happened recently.
but she should know
This has nothing to do with me loving my sister. Yes she is being stubborn but I care about my nephew getting help. This can't hurt my relationship with my sister that is hurt now. And lord knows she prob. still wont do anything. I dont know. Like I said I will protect my daughter. at any cost. She thinks she is doing that to her son. Yes she is protecting him but she isn't helping him. Unfortunately nephews family is the only ones not aware of this. By lying he has "made it go away" even if he doesn't have his aunt, uncle or cousin anymore. I think he has pretty much lost all from our side of family.
It sounds to me like this is being handled and very much in the open. As i said if it is recent events and your sister does not know then maybe you should tell her and ask if you,her and the counselor could meet to talk about it. of course that is a decision the counselor should make.
I really do not know what to tell. I know if i felt as you do and it was recent events. i would try and do something to be sure that he has got the help he needs. if it means letting your sister know this was not a one time event then that is the way it has to be. If the counselor is also convinced that it was only a one time event then there may be a problem that has been misdiagnosed.
based on what you said i would have a conversaton with your sister and the counselor.