Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
My brother raped me when I was a child repeatedly. Now that I have finally spoken up about it to my family, he refuses to allow me to see my niece and nephew. It hurts to much that he has that power over me still and can hurt me in this way.
I try not to be hurt, but I am. I love them and I miss them. I took care of them from when they were infants until they were around 3 and 4. I let them spend the night with me. I would cancle my plans and drop everything so I could watch the kids for my brother. I took care of them when they were sick. I love them as if they were my own children.
I hate that they are with him and that I cannot see them and protect them. I have no way of making sure they are ok or safe.
I try to be strong about this, but I'm just not.
I try not to be hurt, but I am. I love them and I miss them. I took care of them from when they were infants until they were around 3 and 4. I let them spend the night with me. I would cancle my plans and drop everything so I could watch the kids for my brother. I took care of them when they were sick. I love them as if they were my own children.
I hate that they are with him and that I cannot see them and protect them. I have no way of making sure they are ok or safe.
I try to be strong about this, but I'm just not.
deleted_user
someone needs to know more how old are the kids I would not trust him with them alone as for the way he is treating you and not allowing you to see them makes me wonder what he may be doing to them .
deleted_user
We tried to tell his wife about him, but she wouldn't listen to me and my parent's.
deleted_user
Have you ever reported you abuse to the athorities? I would start there and at least have it on record that he molested you. Chances are they won't do anything without proof from on of his kids.
Join the Conversation
-
I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
-
theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
