Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
I will try and be delicate here. This is a difficult subject to write about in terms that would not be offensive to some people. So I will apologise now for upsetting anyone.
I struggle all the time when after being intimate.
It always is strongest immdeatly after that magic mmoment. I know it is the result of the abuse and hating sex in my teens.
Does any one else struggle with this type of quilt?
I struggle all the time when after being intimate.
It always is strongest immdeatly after that magic mmoment. I know it is the result of the abuse and hating sex in my teens.
Does any one else struggle with this type of quilt?
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correction to last post i forgot to mention the guilt i feel after being intemate.
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sometimes feel cheap and I stop right in the middle or if I get a feeling that my partner is to demanding I get freaked out. I used to be how do I put, sexual. I would give it away and I liked it because I was in control. But I never feel guilty. I have an idea of why u might feel guilty but I don't wont to post it.
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blue36: drop me an email. i would like to hear your thoughts.
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I hope that all that read this thread don't get offened.Part of my self-distructive behavior was sex. I know that some people avoid sex because of the abuse, I just reacted this way. I am not like that now. My therepist said its common. I think I was just trying to gain control.I was very young and I suffered for it. I am not proud but I am not going to dwell either. I am not that person anymore.
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I hope that all that read this thread don't get offened.Part of my self-distructive behavior was sex. I know that some people avoid sex because of the abuse, I just reacted this way. I am not like that now. My therepist said its common. I think I was just trying to gain control.I was very young and I suffered for it. I am not proud but I am not going to dwell either. I am not that person anymore.
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I hope that all that read this thread don't get offened.Part of my self-distructive behavior was sex. I know that some people avoid sex because of the abuse, I just reacted this way. I am not like that now. My therepist said its common. I think I was just trying to gain control.I was very young and I suffered for it. I am not proud but I am not going to dwell either. I am not that person anymore.
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I hope that all that read this thread don't get offened.Part of my self-distructive behavior was sex. I know that some people avoid sex because of the abuse, I just reacted this way. I am not like that now. My therepist said its common. I think I was just trying to gain control.I was very young and I suffered for it. I am not proud but I am not going to dwell either. I am not that person anymore.
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I hope that all that read this thread don't get offened.Part of my self-distructive behavior was sex. I know that some people avoid sex because of the abuse, I just reacted this way. I am not like that now. My therepist said its common. I think I was just trying to gain control.I was very young and I suffered for it. I am not proud but I am not going to dwell either. I am not that person anymore.
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