Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Hello everyone. Today is a really hard day for me. I am new here and I just need someone that I can talk to. My Brother commited suicied on sept. 9th and I am just sitting here looking at my life and wondering what is the point? I was molersted by my step dad when I was 8 to the age of 16. My step father is still alive. He out lived my sister who dies three years ago. My sister stood up for me and was always there when I needed someone. We were 9 months apart and I really miss her. She was addicted to drugs due to our past. She started on drugs at the age of thirteen because it was easier to deal with life under the influence. My mother and I started to talk after her death. She made our life hell when we were little. My mother has changed after divorcing my step father. She wants to have a relationship with me. I have forgiven her and my step father but I feel that I need to have a relationship with her. I have talked to my mother about our past and she told me that all she can do is ask us to forgive her and mabey we can have a better relationship in the future. I told my mother that her ex husband is the reason my sister is dead. She said that she knew. What ever. Any way today I just have no energy I guess I am still dealing with my brothers death and I just can not due this anymore...... Help
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Sorry to here about your brothers and sisters death and you miss them.
I totally understand how you feel about your mam and if she did know it was going on and chose to stick by him them she is worse then he could ever be.
You say she said could you forgive her? than you could have a relationshop well why should you she wants to talk now she is devorced but when she had the choice to stick by her children her own flesh and blood she chose him over her own small children.
I can not say what you should do as I do not know you or your mother and what you decide is your desion and only your desion.
I COULD NEVER EVER FORGIVE HER SHE WANTS YOU NOW SHE IS DEVORCED AND NOW STARTED TALKING TO YOU BECAUSE IT SUITS HER AND HER SITUATION
No matter what she does in the future she can not erase the past if you can forgive her then good luck to you and I hope you can have a relationship.
My advice to you is dont forgive her if she knew it was going on there is no words to decribe that and she has no right to expect you to forgive her I would never ever trust her with my children I dont know if you have small children, she deserves no repect.
In my opinion she has no guilt in the fact that she just expects you to forgive, she should be prepared to give you all the answers you ask before you even consider forgiving her