Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Okay I don't know what to do.I was abused by my father when I was five years old.I live in New Zealand and my parents live in England.My mum doesn't know about the abuse as far as I'm aware of.However I haven't seen them in five years and am thinking of going over in january next year.The only thing stopping me? Is my dad,I don't know if I'll be able to stand looking at him,the memories are so fresh and have been coming back to me over the past few years.I really miss them too!!I just can't forgive him for what he's done to me.I feel that when I look at him I feel dirty and worthless.When I see him smile I get angry because he is free,he has blocked the event out of his memory.He refusses to recall it,and I don't get along with him too well.
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I have to see my abuser every holiday. it was difficult to forgive him. and it is rare. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't do it. but i know how hard it is. for me it got easier. but i am also numb about the abuse i experienced. if your not ready don't push it.
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hi i have to see one of my abuser every week., it is hard to start off with but i have learnt to just ignore him i dont talk or look at this man. i would agree with willow if your not ready then dont push your self x
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This is what Im now dealing with. My abuser is coming to town. I cant bear to be in the same roo. I had repressed the memories for years. It probaly would not be good for you mentally for you to go. can your mom come to you? Is there any way you can tell her? have you seen a counselor?Once your there your stuck there you dont know what feelings will come up. Do you have a sister you can talk to? I dont know if this helps but I just know the feelings Im feelings Im feeling right know. And I do not wnat to see this person. It was my cousin, not my dad, thoe. Im sorry for this.
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you would feel better in the long run if you would tell your mom what happened....you must! Just think she is living with this jerk! Don't you want more for your mom than that? I told my mom and she left. You never get over those things you just learn to live around them.
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