
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
When I first spoke out I was afraid they would find some way to hurt me. As time unfolded I reaslied that they didn't have a normal life. Not only were they suffering the stigma of suspicion from their wives, they were suffering from the indigestible lie.
By denying the truth they can never heal themselves. I still blame them, they were old enough to know better, but I can also see the pattern of abuse in their family. I can still remember their Dad whipping them. I remember trying to protect them because I knew they would turn on me afterwards. I remember one of them following his father to a clandestine meeting with his mistress and making me copy what he saw.
They, however, believe they had a perfect childhood. That their father was a great guy, their mother ever loving, not simply the person behind whom the abuser hides.
And now they can never heal themselves, or stop it from happening again.
Now when someone from the family visits them they will no longer let their children stay at their house unchaperoned.
I did not make them the perpetrators, they did. If they would only step forward and open their mouths; they could at least move forward and heal.
But they have shut the door on this forever and now they have to carry the burden, not me.
Finally I do not have to carry the weight... this is revenge enough.
I dont want to type anymore about it I will get really angry. I dont like that
But when I hear about what's happened to the other men and women on this site, I want to hunt down their abusers and torture them. I want to make them feel the physical equivalent of the pain they put their victims through.