Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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did i over react?

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i was swimming...this random stranger guy was talking to me and following me and grabbing my feel and stuff while i was swimming... and i was okay...weired out but okay...but then he grabed my swim trunks to put sea grass down them and i freaked out..imean like full on panic attack... and tried to swim away as hard as i could and he grabbed my ankle and pulled me back...i kicked so hard i pulled muscles in my legs and he was lauging... i was panicing...i got out and walked way.. well half limbed half pulled my self... and wouldnt go back in the water... i came home and took a shower and scrubed myself...

but now im thinking i just overreacted...
did i over react?
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NO! I don't think you overreacted. He had no right to touch you in ANY way!
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No if he was a stranger and was harassing you then no
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okay..cuz i have a history ofabuse... i dontlikebeingtouched... even by friends... and this stranger was almost stalking me..
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You did the right thing!! NO ONE has the right to touch you EVER! I am so sorry that happened to you. HUGS
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no i think you were right for what you did and i am the same way i don't liem people touching me even when my mom or stepdad come to give me a hug i get scared i think that he had no rigth touchibf you even because he didn't know you and you don't like being touched so if he got hurt good for him
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No, you did not overreact. Each one of us have boundaries and he violated your boundaries. If anything this guy deserved a swift kick in the teeth.

Peace,
Greg.
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