ok ill elaborate. a close person to me tried to kill herself last night and i dont know why. we both were abused as children but i dont know if she remembers it, weve never spoken about it. wtf am i supposed to do

Are you dealing with this alone? Are you in the UK?
I'm sorry you had to deal with this, but glad for your friend that you were there for her. Well done.
All you can do is offer her the opportunity to talk, sit with her, listen. It will be emotionally draining for you, too, so you need to offload on someone. Journal it if it helps.
Perhaps she is remembering what's happened, but as she's so fragile at the moment she may not be able to talk about it.
Sorry I couldn't be of more help. Take care of yourself.

Hey. Sorry bout that my computer crashed. I'm here if you want?
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i think u should ask her. it may be that she wants 2 talk about it.unless u were very young i doubt she would have forgotten. maybe, since u never spk of it she feels u have forgotten or even got over it which would make her feel worse 4 not being able 2 do same. let her know u ready 2 talk when she is. good luck

It mihgt be that she's remembering but doesn't know how to deal with it.
All you can offer is support but make sure that you get the support that you need. You can't support her if you're not in a fit state yourself. Have you tried asking her to talk to someone at A and E. they might be able to help.
Sounds weird but how did she try? Only if it was by OD its very very important that she gets checked out by a Doctor even if she feels ok because there can be deleayed effects.
I'm here to talk if you want.
Hope you're ok
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if you need to go to an emergency hospital and talk to someone or find someone a perfessional like a doctor.