Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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can't deal

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I've been out with a guy a couple of times and I'm comfortable with him. He is very nice and understanding of my situation. Then there's the guy here on DS who I have really clicked with. 2 more guys called this evening asking out for this weekend. I told them I'm seeing someone and have Ben this weekend anyways. Why do I have to get so uncomfortable with getting attention from guys? How do I know that they are interested in me for me and not just for sex?
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If you feel that the sex is a motivation for a relationship with you then in this case I think it is wise to use it as YOUR power. You dont have to have sex with anyone you dont want to. And if you feel you need to wait to do it with Tom Dick or Harry then wait. Its up to you. If they cant wait then they are not for you. I havnt had sex since I have started dealing with my issues, but thats for me. Given the oppertuniy right now I dont think I want to. The point is, all of the choices are yours.
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