
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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I would like to know how all of you uys out there can be so encouraging? I know that we are all here for support with serious issues, but even here I am afraid of being judged. I try to watch what other people are doing to see if I can come up with some ways of helping myself, but I feel that there is no hope.
I was talking to my one true friend today and told her that I wanted to try and cheer myself up, by looking nice. I am not a dog, but not to attractive. When I "Do" something with myself most people make a HUGE deal about it.
I try to be social, but end up finding myself right back behind a wall or in a corner. Other than this horrible past I have no way to socialize with other people. the only thing I can relate to is abuse.
Can someone learn how to be social?
I was talking to my one true friend today and told her that I wanted to try and cheer myself up, by looking nice. I am not a dog, but not to attractive. When I "Do" something with myself most people make a HUGE deal about it.
I try to be social, but end up finding myself right back behind a wall or in a corner. Other than this horrible past I have no way to socialize with other people. the only thing I can relate to is abuse.
Can someone learn how to be social?
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but you can try the best you can.
talk to a stranger, strike up a conversation
I will be your friend. I know things are hard and togethor we will be ok
I also have a problem with being afraid of people judging me. I have a tendancy with others to act like I don't give a shit what anyone thinks. It was very hard for me to start writing in this site, even though noone knows who I am. I was always verbally abused as a kid, the only day of the year everyone in the family was nice was on my birthday.
Anyway, You can learn to be social, I think it just takes us a lot more effort.
Even with my kid, if she has to do something for school, either she doesn't do it or someone else has to take her. I am so uncomfortable with who I am I can't go to her school.
My whole life I have had a hard time making and keeping friends. I am a self sabatager. I make it so that people don't want to be around me and I have not the first idea how to fix this problem.
thanks for the support though.