Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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I've been dating the same guy for almost a year now, we took everything EXTREMELY slow for many reasons, the main one being because i freak out so easily in relationships. i've done some really good work in terms of coping methods and stuff, but things are really starting to get bad with my boyfriend. We took things so slow that i was only just ready to start calling him my boyfriend, and as soon as that word was said the freak outs started happening. I know i'm being unfair to him when i get upset or cold when he doesn't say or do exactly the right thing, but i'm having a hard time controlling negative feelings towards him. he has nothing but good intentions, but we both find it very confusing and even more frustrating when i have feelings of resentment towards him for no apparent reason. Any tips or advice for me or anything that i can tell him so he understands more that it doesn't have to do with him would be so helpful!
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It's totally normal what are you feeling, it is very important for you to go to counseling and try to find a small group like Celebrate Recovery, I understand you we all have feelings of insecuruty, fears, is difficult to trust someone, but if you focus on your healing first and let God work through your pain, you will be amazed !! You are not ready yet for a serius relationship...
....let me know if you need anything, I'm here to help you, I have been through the healing process 6 months ago, it is a hard work, lot of pain but is the best thing when we start feelings bits of healing ...Let it go, give everything to Jesus, He can heal all of your wounds!
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I know what you are feeling you had something happen to you in the past and I do not know if you have told your boyfriend butit seems something is still affecting you when you get close to him if there is someone you could talk to about what is going on when you to want to be close then maybe you two will be able to understand more of what happens to you maybe if he could go with you to an appointment this would help him when you distance your self from him he seems to care about see what you could do/
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know what you are feeling you had something happen to you in the past and I do not know if you have told your boyfriend butit seems something is still affecting you when you get close to him if there is someone you could talk to about what is going on when you to want to be close then maybe you two will be able to understand more of what happens to you maybe if he could go with you to an appointment this would help him when you distance your self from him he seems to care about see what you could do/
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know what you are feeling you had something happen to you in the past and I do not know if you have told your boyfriend butit seems something is still affecting you when you get close to him if there is someone you could talk to about what is going on when you to want to be close then maybe you two will be able to understand more of what happens to you maybe if he could go with you to an appointment this would help him when you distance your self from him he seems to care about see what you could do/
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