There is every point in going on even if years the past has stayed blocked. I am sure my story is only half of yours but know that inner peace can be found. I never wanted to face the fact I was a victim and chose not to be a survivor either. Quite simply I'm me.

Have you tried talking with a counsellor, mine was my lifeblood and I couldn't have got to where I am now without him.

Take care
Deb

There is always a point. Its hard to be strong after going through what you have been through but there are people here to support and understand you. I would def suggest seeing some one proffesional to guide you in the right direction. We are all here for you.

Lots of hugs
xx

the proffs are the problem, there trying to take my son away from me because of my past. there saying that as i was abused for 10yrs that means that i can form a relashionship properly.

maybe i should say that my son has behaviour probs and as they could not find a answer for his problems they have said that he has picked up that i had problems in my past

There is point in going on, like deb16 said. Do Not let the abuser continue to control your life. You do not have to be a victim forever. Get pissed off and Take your life back again. Take charge of your own life and piss in the eye of your abuser.

I don't know what you mean by proffs but anyone who says that people who have been sexually abused can't make good mothers are complete and utter scum.

It is possible to no longer be a victim. I am living proof of this fact once apon a time ago I could not see a light at the end of the tunnel hell I just wanted it all to end and I was going to take my three children at the time with me as i didn't want the same family who abused me anywhere near my children , just to say someone wanted me and my children to be alive today because a miricle happend and of course we are all alive and well today and now I have 4 beautiful children and I'm enjoying life to its fullest I love life now , so yes it is possible to get out just be open to it and heal yourself one day at a time , be open for your infomation to heal can come from anywhere a friend a book a counsellor a T.V show a stranger you meet anywhere it can happen in amazing ways. If you believe in god he will show you the way wich you at least expect it , if you believe in the power of the universe then that to will make things or people cross your path in amazing ways for you to heal just listen and watch see what wonders will cross your path listen for the positive messages . We all know good and bad and the same with our feelings if they feel good then we know they are good and if they seem or feel bad then we don't pay attention to them we know right from wrong ! just keep that in mind because we are all beautiful creatures of god and with love in our hearts we can heal the world! xxxoooxxx luv lesley