Sex / Pornography Addiction Support Group

Sexual addiction, also sometimes called sexual compulsion, is a form of psychological addiction to sexual intercourse and other sexual behavior.

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I am 25 years old. I have been dating an amazing woman for over a year now and I day hope to marry her. I have determined that I have a problem when it comes to nudity. She is incredibly beautiful, yet I can't seem to stop looking at porn web sites, whether I stay late at work or I look at them at home when she isn't around. This is the second time she has caught me doing it now, the last time I asked someone I know to send me a naked picture via my phone. This time around she found out that I had looked I some porn sites lately on her computer. This is ruining our relationship and she is threatening to leave me, might actually have already decided to leave me. I need to get help somewhere, but I don't have any money so I can't go to a therapist. Does anyone have any ideas? Please help me.
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Check out the local SAA meetings, or find an online assistance site, such as www.higher-calling.com or
www.recoverynation.com

Both are excellent sites for assistance with this.

You can also message me and I can help you with these and some other sources.
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I have you to give you credit...you have taken the first step towards recovery by admitting you have a problem. This is what all the partners of sex addicts dream of and here you are doing it. I'm proud of you!!! and I don't even know you, but keep on searching for the answer to this addiction and I know you'll find it.

Let me tell you something, if your woman is already threatening to leave you if you don't stop it won't be much longer before she acts on those threats. If you truly want this relationship to work with her you need to start rebuilding her trust in you. If she knows you're seeking help she will most likely support your decision to get better and stick it out with you.

Stay strong and definitely stay in contact with robertbishop...he's a great support system!
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Yes i agree the first step is addmitting and total surrender..i found my solution in the rooms of slaa..sex and love addicts..i found out that my addiction is emotional in nature..i started to do the painful work of looking at my obsession and why it was there...check a meeting out it just might save your life..at best it will make you aware of this addiction...
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