While my husband is trying to stop all pornography/masturbation/purchasing erotic services (i.e. using Craig's List to seek the services of prostitutes), YES, all porn and masturbation is off limits. Is your husband getting any professional help?

You should seriously consider cutting it all out. It's like an alcoholic trying to stop drinking by switching to light beer.....not gonna work! And, if you are doing it with him, then you are providing the "beer" for him.
Cork the bottle and throw it away. Porn and sex addiction are not easy things to just "give up", and programming your mind to stop is not necessarily going to work for him. It takes resolve, determination, and committment to one another to do this. It will be rough, but I know you can do it.

Thank-you!!! I am just so used to trying to please him no matter what and afraid if I cut it out he will hide it from me. He said he was willing to get all of the porn out of the house, so I guess its tim to take him up on that. And sit down and have a serious talk about our sex life. Ty for the input:)

A part of the recovery process is trust. In many cases there has been a serious breach of that trust because of the addict hiding their addiction and/or lying about what he/she is doing.
If you can trust him, and he trust you, you are well on the road to recovery.

I agree with the others....eliminate it all. If your an addict, it's all destructive to the relationship....IMHO

If you try to eliminate something that is harming your relationship and self, then think about what you can replace it with. For instance "Romance" and lovemaking to you. Then the need for Something perhaps won't be as strong. Just a thought.

When you use porn and masterbation you can say that your with him but truly neither of you are with each other. He's busy thinking about her and you him! Your just using each other bodies as a sex toy. Its very unhealthy and a hard addiction to break.

Do you want to cut out all porn/masturbation? Does he?
If he does, and you are supportive of him and his honesty [not controlling]. I think it may be possible to continue having an honest relationship with him. I don't know, because i've never been in the situation myself. Maybe it would be good to talk with him about this and see how he feels. I know i have to truly want it to be able to beat an addiction.