
Sex / Pornography Addiction Support Group
Sexual addiction, also sometimes called sexual compulsion, is a form of psychological addiction to sexual intercourse and other sexual behavior.

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my fiance is addicting to porn and marijuana and who knows what else? currently he is incarcerated and i cant talk to him every day but i found out after he went away that he ordered porn on pay-per view like 450 dollars worth and that while i was at work he did that and also went out and got high. he told me before that he was done and obviously he is not. i dont know what to do. i love him and i want to be with him so much but im afraid that he is just going to do this stuff again and it breaks my heart so much. how do you know if he is done or not? how do you know when enough is enough? am i stupid for staying with him?
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He may have many great qualities, none of which you mention. But do you want to start your adult life with someone in this situation?
Consider making him work for the right to be with you. Once he proves he is in control of his demons and problems, perhaps you can make the decision to marry him.
Until then, maybe you should think that you deserve better. Just my two cents. Best of luck to you.
Try to work out these issues before he gets out. Try to figure out why you are willing to settle for what to me, sounds like one of the worst relationship experiences I have ever heard.
You deserve someone so much better.
A couple of other great resources are "If the Buddha Dated" by Charlotte Kasl - it is not about Buddha, it is about having healthy relationships. Also, Facing Sex and Love Addiction, by Pia Melody. One of my worst was a homeless cowboy. He really didn't have potential, I just felt sorry for him. One of the signs of love addiction is "the need to be rescued or to rescue." I think this boy needs to rescue himself and you need to move on, but get some help - otherwise you'll pick another one, just like him.
I think it is great you were willing to ask for help on this site. Keep us posted.
when i found out...i thought it was my fault. I'm too fat and too ugly, that no one else would ever really love me because i'm "used goods" so i might as well stay with him....he wants to marry me.... who would?
knowing what other ppl felt has helped me here. i hope it can be helpful here too.
btw.... I felt such relief when we split 2&1/2 yrs later... i see now that there are pleanty of other fish in the water...and ya know what....maybe i don't want any at all?
you deserve good things.