
Sex / Pornography Addiction Support Group
Sexual addiction, also sometimes called sexual compulsion, is a form of psychological addiction to sexual intercourse and other sexual behavior.

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I am married to a husband with almost no sex drive, partly due to a medical condition. I had a 2 yr cyber relationship that ended in July. All was good until last evening. I heard about a sex website and ended up having quick verbal cybersex with a stranger, then just chatted with another fellow. I know I am happy in my marriage except for the lack of sex. I am disgusted with myself for yesterday's episode yet I want to do it again. I am basically facing the rest of my life with sex maybe 4 times a year. An real life affair is NOT the answer...been there, done that once. The cyber relationship was also painful in the emotional attachment factor. But this "stranger cybersex" is just plain yucky. And sex alone just isn't quite the same...lol. What the heck should I do?
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1. Either develop a good understanding with your husband and have a wonderful life with perfect sex.
2. Since you said no sex drive, I will suggest break up with your husband and try to get a good life partner.. again no cyber relationship.. get a real relationship
if he is having a physical problem...there are other things you guys can do.
this is prolly unhealthy thinking...but i can understand why your having trouble being monogamous. I don't feel like that is a healthy amount [4x a yr].
sorry that your having trouble =/
I think your hubby possibly is feeling frustrated too.
I can share from my experience as my wife and I have not been together sexually for over a year. Its hard when there is that lack of desire esp. from one partner. meds and bioplar are the major factor on our side.
I messed up once last year hense I joined this group (Had a cyber affair). I miss the person and often wish I could just go back to chatting again. I know for me it would be a very dangerous road to travel so I have elected not to chat to her. Its definately not easy and it takes a lot to be strong.
My way of coping is to try and stay away from "danger" as much as I can.
The biggest thing I learn't from this is that I am not strong. I have a weekness but I can be real and ask for help when the time is needed. Carry on going don't give up. Hey you might fall but be ready to say I am in need. There is help ahead :-)