It sounds like you have a sex addiction. Mainly, the very fact of what you will do for sex, and the way you feel afterwards. Many of us here have been in similar situations, and have similar battles with it. My own addictions run more towards pornography and sexual fantasies than actually participating, but I still understand the feelings and the aftermath.
Honestly, you may consider joining an SA or SAA type of program, and consider some form of sexual addiction counseling.
If we can help you here, please hang around and read other's posts. This is a subject that seems to have come up a lot lately, and there are many great answers to the questions you have asked.

Cheffy your hinting aren't you tiger?

I couldn't agree more with Robert. What you describe is classic SA. SA is about being compulsive. You are compulsively acting out. The fact that you really like sex isn't the issue. Alcoholics will tell you they like the taste of alcohol too. Sex for a SA is no more about sex than thirst is for an alcoholic. Sex is just your drug of choice....like other SA's here. From what you shared, you appear to be powerless over your compulsive need to have sex...that's pretty much the definition of SA. Please at least check out a SAA meeting...perhaps commit to going to five meeting and then re-evaluating whether it's right for you. I think you'll be surprised what you find.
Feeling disgusted with yourself, putting yourself at risk and all the rest isn't how you want to be or you wouldn't have posted. You took the first step...learn all you can about this disease...it will keep the boot on your neck forever if you let it. I don't think you want that for yourself. Thanks for being so honest! Good luck to you

Hey, girl. Yep, you're talking about classic SA behavior, just like the guys here say.
Really, sex is my addiction, too. It's better than any drug I've ever tried. It is my escape when my day has been tough, it is my power when I want to feel an ego boost, and it is my shame when I wake up in the morning knowing I've hurt my spouse out of weakness for that "thrill" of anonymous sex.
I'm recovering for 8 years and "sober" for 4.
If you think you might have a problem, you probably do. I'm proud of you for seeing that in yourself! It takes a big person to admit their weaknesses.
This is a great step towards recovery. There are many other ways to help you through, like SAA groups (like alcoholics anonymous) in your area that is a 12-step program, and there's also therapy with a licensed sex therapist. Options to consider if you're still feeling like you'd rather get a handle on your feelings.
No matter what, I'm glad you opened up to us! Hang in there.

chefd, please stop with the insinuations. This is NOT the place to satisfy your own desires. Move over to the Healthy Sex forum if you are going to continue "hitting" on others, OK? If it happens again, I will take the initiative to report you to the Administration of this site for abuse. We are here to understand SA and seek answers to our problems and support one another, NOT to forward our own agenda and make advances on others. This forum is supposed to a safe place for people to openly discuss their problems, without fear of being "hit on". What you are doing is using another person's weakness to profit yourself, and it is wrong.

MiZz, I apologize for his behavior. It is inappropriate and unnecessary, and I hope that you will continue to come here and talk about this with us. There are a great group of people here who genuinely care about helping you and offering support and advice. Please don't let one bad apple spoil it for you.

Thank you robert you are one cool cat!!!
There's not many serious ppl on here so I've been looking to make friends with ppl who really seem to be serious with stopping this addiction. So far no luck but thats ok. I don't have many support ppl so it gets kinda tough.

Any time, MiZzD.
There are some really great folks on here that are serious about getting this under control,and I am certainly one of them. I've battled this for 28 years, and am now clean just over a year. If I can do anything to help, just let me know.

I can relate to alot of what you do and feel. Sex is like a drug that nothing else can fill. I asked the same question about a week ago - is there a such thing as being overly sexual? And like you - I feel like I'll lose my ever lovin mind without it. I've been w/o it for 6 weeks now, and I'm finding I stay in a bad mood. So, I'm right there with you. Just wanted you to know you're not in it alone!

6 wks Flutterby? Wow, I WOULD lose my mind! LOL I get that way if it goes 6 DAYS! LOL

Oh yeah, trust me, I have thought a couple times I was gonna lose my mind. But girl - if I can do it, anyone can. I'm still taking care of business at home on my own if you know what I mean. But nothing outside of it. It kind of feels good. Like I'm taking back control over my own life.

You go Flutter. You can do it! :)

I have been, damn it! lol Its more empowering than I thought it would be. You can do it too girl!