Please I need help

I think it is good that you recognize that you have a problem. I'm not sure about getting a girlfriend - it wouldn't be right to try to heal yourself by using someone else.

Perhaps you need to talk to a counselor or therapist. many people say that their excessive interest in sex or porn started when they had a life trauma of some kind. Have you had this?

Recognize that your obsession with sex is really just a way of channeling feelings or anger or energy generated by something else. But it can keep you from having a normal, healthy sex life, just lie an alcoholic cannot drink socially. But sex addiction is much worse. It can keep you from having a relationship.
It would be best to get to the bottom of it. You are starting very early. Before you have bad relationships and have to lie. Before you get caught by the law or your friends or family.
Good lkuck.

First don't make it sound like I'm a freak.And I'm not trying to cover up any kind of anger or tramua,the reason I have this problem is because I don't have a GF.And if I do get a GF ,I would not be sex crazed with her,I would just take things slow and when were both ready then it will happen when it's time to.It is not that I'm some sex crazed maniac,it is just that I can't get a GF and that just makes me think about sex more.

I don't think I called you a freak or even thought of you as a freak. But if I said something that offended you, I am sorry.

Hi

No one here is going to ever mean to make you feel bad. It sounds like you need a friend and a friend. If I can help , please write me. If you are indeed feeling suicidal, I am asking you to call the national hotline (see Help section of this site) I know SO many people who did and were helped. You hang on, you are smart and this crazy feeling will pass with someone to talk to. Sea

Yeah I'm just so lonley and it makes me feel terrible :(

and thriver I know you were just trying to help,I'm just am depressed right now and makes me not myself

I think Thriver is right in many ways. Sex is great but I have found it to be also a release from the everyday stresses of my life, which is not good. I'm not saying I hook up with every guy I see, but when I get the urge and I'm at a party and their is a hot guy that wants to do it, unfortunatly I find myself doing it... and it's not right. I'm getting better though.

After thinking about I've actually come to the conclusion that I'm not addicted to sex at all,I'm actually just really lonley,and thats whats causes all my problems

Please Note this young man is FIFTEEN YEARS OLD

Something you might consider is backing off on the porn. Porn sets up unrealistc expectations for someone as young as you, especially someone who has not experienced sex for real. I don't think that you are addicted to sex in itself, just the idea of sex based on what you've seen.
I wish you luck, my young friend. If I can help you in any way, please let me know.

I know I'm 15 I said so,and I know porn is not real it's just fake acting for the most part,It's not like I think thats how people are in real life,do you think I'm that messed up in the head? Well I'm not

I appreciate everyones advice,but please don't be putting words in my mouth

Well, I am NOT 15 and I am here to tell you that you are going through a normal time. You want a gf and your body is chaging and your hormones going nuts. So that oart I telling you to chill about. I agree with the part about telling someone TODAY about feeling suicidal. And I want you to tell someone with some experience,,a counselor, the national hotline or call your local hotline. Look up Suicide on Google. Dont let this go on one more day.

Hey, no need to get so bent out of shape! I'm sure you think you know everything, since you're 15, but why did you come here asking for help if you don't want any?

Look, try listening once in a while. People are trying to give you some sound, solid advice, and all you want to do is criticize us for trying to offer you a little help.
Let me let you in on a little secret: I was 13 when I got hooked on porn, much the way you are now. It cost me the next 28 years of my life trying to get out of it. This is nothing to play around with,OK? I know people will tell you it's OK to do, but I can promise you it's not. The things you see and hear now will haunt you the rest of your life. You need to get it under control now. You're 15 and just starting your life. Don't make the mistakes that I and many others have made. Listen to those of us who have "been there and done that" and PAY ATTENTION! Get some kind of help now. NoOne55 is right, call a helpline or see a counselor and get help with your depression and suicidal thoughts, please. Don't be a statistic, be a survivor.

FIFTEEN YEAR OLD BOY sex on mind hormones running wild gets off on porn soft likely I was that boy so WAS EVERYONE. Jeez lighten up judgemental and so over the top. One thing I do not think he should be on a Porn Sex Addict site there are are lot of creepy freaks out there and kids of 13 -16 need care protection and suporrt. Hey Kid you are as Normal as Norm