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Sexual addiction, also sometimes called sexual compulsion, is a form of psychological addiction to sexual intercourse and other sexual behavior.

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do anybody out there think i should have sex at 13
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PS I think you are on the wrong discussion group.
i regret starting at age 15. All of my friends that have the best boyfriends, are the ones that are waiting for when they are done with college!
This is general and not meant just to the young lady who posts here. It has me thinking and I want to post my general thoughts about her question.
I feel strongly that you and some of the other teens here need to be in the Discussion groups dealing with Teen Sex issues. I have no problem with you checking here for advice sometimes. And while I know some of you will get angry because we are "treating you like kids", you won't know till later in your life what a benefit it IS to be treated like a kid when you are a kid. Many people here will tell you the horrors of being treated like an adult when you are a child or teen.
And to Robert's point on another thread, if you want and ask for advice, the way to receive it is to say thanks, I will think about it. The wave of rage and defensiveness we usually get is exactly what we are all talking about. You are teens, with feelings and hormones all over the place. In my opinion, it is just too soon for you to be having sex. You will think about it, that is normal. But sex is complicated, it creates feelings and consequences that are very hard to deal with at your age. There is So much time to go the sex route. Do yourself a favor and wait it out. You will be so happy you did.
I also caution you about believeing anything you are reading in magazines and certainly in any porn. At your age, you need to be learning what REAL people look like and what real feelings are. Porn and the hype of celebrity stuff is all made up. It is like watching the Macy's parade and believing that we can all float. It is NOT real, but at your age, you start thinking it is. And then you can't believe when you or others dont look or act the same way. To quote Cindy Crawford, " Even I do not look like CINDY CRAWFORD in the morning".
I also have to say that I think that the responsible adults on this site need to dissuade the provocative pictures, comments and come ons that some of these kids are putting out there. It triggers some and it is very harmful to these kids to think this is the way to get attention.
There are few here who would say that toying with a kid in any way is acceptable and to me, that includes encouraging these more inappropriate posts, pictures posted and comments.
Just my opinion. I am a big advocate for childhood actually being childhood again in this country-
Sea
The fact is research is showing that the brain has not fully developed until late teens for most people and the part that is still developing is the part that deals with being able to fully appreciate and understand the consequences of ones behavior and actions. The decision to have "sex" is a huge decision with many, many potential consequences. I would think that no one should be making such a big step until they can fully understand the significance. The irony here is...I'd guess the vast majority of teens would argue that they "do" fully understand and grasp the all the ramifications but brain research suggests otherwise....I too agree that this question is better suited for another forum. I am encouraged that everyone who posted a response regardless of age...all thought it better to wait.
I so agree with what everone said. We all thought we were grown up in our teens. I have ssen the same research Sad talks about. Turns out that the combo of growth hornones with brain development and body changes actually is real. I wish I had known that.
I am a man and look, it is tempting to tke th ejail bait here. But Sea is right.
We, all of us who KNOW, need to tell the male and fenale teens and kids here to stay kids.
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