I would leave him. He doesn't deserve you... you keep giving him the chance to change and he ain't taking it. It isn't worthing hurting daily more and more... I know it ain't that easy to just say that it's over and I'm sure it will hurt a lot but you don't deserve to have to sit there and hurt.

Show emotion! Don't let him be a selfish prick like that. Make him feel your pain!

Good luck!

LEAVE, but do so wisely... protect yourself and family as much as possible. I played that game for 18 years, and am now 1 year into the divorce game. I have regained some self - esteem, but have a LONG way to go. Unless your husband is on par with Robert Bishop and a few others here, which it doesn't sound like he is, you need to protect yourself - he won't stop until HE wants to - there is NOTHING you can do.. he has to want to change and it sure doesn't sound like he does.
You can make it - if I and others could, you can make it by yourself. I never thought I could, but so far I HAVE. Give yourself a Christmas present - freedom from that life.
Let me know if I can help.

My advise would be to take care of yourself. Make preparations to keep yourself and your family safe, if your worried he will do something to interfere or talk you out of it. Then leave. Reach out to friends and family, get some support. Maybe even a good therapist can help you through this.

I'm sorry if that sounds harsh. *hugz* but you deserve better. So sorry your going through this

i understand where your coming from..for me i had some underlying codapendency issues that cuased me to stay in the sickness...i had no boundaries or any sense of self worth...my identity was totally smashed and the longer i stayed the harder it was to leave..sex addiction is serious stuff..its emotional in nature and takes alot to get grips on..I like to view it like smoking crack...sex is like crack..as soon as the obsession returns i lose the power of choice in my actions..and nothing anyone says is going to stop that compulsion..i had to hit a bottom on my own and be willing to take a look at it..just like the drug addict..good luck
james

Susan, get out NOW! He isn't ready to deal with this, and he's rubing it in your face. He probably thinks you won't leave him, so he's going to do what he wants to do. CALL HIS BLUFF and get out!

Sometimes you have to do what you'vr got to do. That care of you and he'll do wha he chooses. She those limits

He has left the relationship a long time ago. You will just be the one to close the door.

Go, find yourself, make new friends, open your horizens, and in 5 years time you will look back and be SO thankful. And you will wonder how on earth you tolerated it.

My husband is addicted to internet porn.So far he hasn't had an affair but he watches porn in front of me.He doesn't bother to hide it.This is all new to me.I just found out and I have so many questions and feeling going through me that I am not sure what I am going to do.

Susan,

You need to separate from him so he understands that you are serious and that you cannot tolerate his behavior. At the same time you will need to tell him that he needs to find help because he is obviously out of control.

Don't leave him, just separate and hopefully he will go and find help to cure him of this addiction. If you've ever dealt with an alcoholic you realize it is not that they want to hurt others but they have an uncontrollable passion to meet and drugs and sex is similar.