
Sex / Pornography Addiction Support Group
Sexual addiction, also sometimes called sexual compulsion, is a form of psychological addiction to sexual intercourse and other sexual behavior.

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let me start off with my hubby and I have had probs for more than a year now and we are kind of at an ok point right now sort of anyway only because i am I think giving up on certain things like trying not to take too many things too personal but this last thing is really just keeping a wedge between us and really just keeping me at a certain level with him in the trust dept!
the situation to date is everytime he has a minute to do it he goes to the newsgroups or d/l porn . not just anything tho pretty specific stuff and people!!!!! its really creeping me the hell out. Hes not at the level that hes paying for it because he doesnt have to . Its readily available if you know how to work the sites etc......
I know it may seem like i am probably being a little sensitive because of events in the past year but it doesnt bother me when he just surfs for sex as a whole its just certain things which he KNOWS pisses me off (cause i leave him clues) but some things i dont think he knows i know and its like i said really freaking me out!
to top it all off he cant seem to keep it up when we have sex which at his age isnt nec weird but doc didnt find anything wrong Physically with him so go figure. I kept saying its mental but I just dont know.
Maybe seeing the seemingly perfect figure etc.... are giving him a warped sense of what i should look like IDK but I am really not dealing well with this lately!
He said once when i confronted him that he doesnt do it when weve had sex blah blah... LIES he seems to escalate when we do!!!!!
gets obsessive ! would really love to hear from peeps in similar situations
Male and female!
I wonder if surfing fo weird stuff is a secret thing all guys do out of curiosity or if hes just creepy and i need to bolt?!
some say i should bolt because he knows certain things bother me and he does it out of spite !
IDK some great fucking relationship right?!
the situation to date is everytime he has a minute to do it he goes to the newsgroups or d/l porn . not just anything tho pretty specific stuff and people!!!!! its really creeping me the hell out. Hes not at the level that hes paying for it because he doesnt have to . Its readily available if you know how to work the sites etc......
I know it may seem like i am probably being a little sensitive because of events in the past year but it doesnt bother me when he just surfs for sex as a whole its just certain things which he KNOWS pisses me off (cause i leave him clues) but some things i dont think he knows i know and its like i said really freaking me out!
to top it all off he cant seem to keep it up when we have sex which at his age isnt nec weird but doc didnt find anything wrong Physically with him so go figure. I kept saying its mental but I just dont know.
Maybe seeing the seemingly perfect figure etc.... are giving him a warped sense of what i should look like IDK but I am really not dealing well with this lately!
He said once when i confronted him that he doesnt do it when weve had sex blah blah... LIES he seems to escalate when we do!!!!!
gets obsessive ! would really love to hear from peeps in similar situations
Male and female!
I wonder if surfing fo weird stuff is a secret thing all guys do out of curiosity or if hes just creepy and i need to bolt?!
some say i should bolt because he knows certain things bother me and he does it out of spite !
IDK some great fucking relationship right?!
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i suppose after this past year im just really not willing anymore to even begin to try to measure up . this gets too out of control i can just walk then he can have all the creepy porn he wants and spend his time with ky and sally ! LOLOL
http://dailystrength.org/discussions/Sex_Pornography_Addiction/messages/1438282
I don't know if it will help, but it might give you some answers.
Let me now if I can help in any way.
I am not suggesting that porn is good. It is not. But I have never had the problem of not being able to rise to the occasion for my wife. It does however take me longer to cum, but I thought that was because I'm getting older.
I wrestle with the passion more than porn. I can hop into a fantasy in a second, but mainly control it. There are months when I am in total control and then it's like the flood gates break open. During that time I feel like the guy on Heroes who was about to explode and blow up on New York, but I manage to survive and have not cheated physically on my wife though I do consider masterbating to porn as cheating on my wife.