if your considering if you are, it's worth taking a look at. Is it effecting your marriage/life in negative ways? Have you talked to your wife about it? Does she not want to at all or are you referring to the new adventures?

someone gave me this great link

http://www.recoverynation.com/

I will look thanks

Hi, Torpedo.

I agree that if you're considering this as your addiction, it's most certainly worth looking more fully into.

Not to downplay your situation in any way, but could you just be bored with your current sex life? In studying sexual behaviors, I have learned that men (sorry, guys) have a tendency to "stray" when they're bored with their relationship. This happens for many reasons, like stale love, new baby(ies), active children, job changes, other life crises, and hormonal changes on both you and your wife's parts.

What makes you think you might be addicted?

Besides my current problem. I just to have a beautiful love live (any time, any day, out side, in the bed, on the floor, etc). Then all this behavior started to change slowly. And now I am lucky if I have sex once in 3 weeks.

I now I am a sex addict because that is what my wife tells me all the time. I think about sex 24 hours a day 7 days a week.

Is the problem with me or her.

Thanks