My husband passed away 3 years ago and i am looking for another relationship. i tried a chat site and both men that were interesting to me turned out to be scammers and just wanted me to send them money. I don't know what it is about me that makes me an easy target. My age? or maybe that in the profile of the chat site I tell everyone that I lost my right leg above the knee ? I just want to be honest. i walk just fine and do everything i did before. Both times they broke my heart because i believed the lies. So I left the chat site and I thought i would try here. I have met nothing but friendly and honest people here. At least no one that wanted me to send money to them. I'm pretty sure that 60 is the new 30 so it can't be the age thing. it just is a fact that I need to take care of someone. I used to be a social worker so its in my nature. I don't look like the elephant man so it can't be that either. Maybe i am impatient.