Friendships with men has not worked for me as of yet and I wonder if it is possible to have. What looks like a friendship is often one of the friends having sexual feelingss for the other, and it is not reciprocated. I have not had a successul friendship with a man in real life, only on the computer. Feelings and sexual desires are part of life and will always be there between men and women. I have given in to those feelings with someone recently who I now know I am not sexually attracted too. Having a pair of arms around me and some touching was very hard to push away. Now I am trying to remain friends with him as I do appreciate him very much. Up to now I did not think it was possible (friendship alone) and I have avoided him for a month, although we are emailing and talking now. Time will tell what this relationship becomes, but I do not see it as sexual any longer. So I wonder if this is possible now that I am older, to have a male friend or is it more of the same, one longing for the other and never getting what they want. Is this what friendship with the opposite sex consists of? I hope to have male friends and that it is for the right reasons.
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