So of course I have a problem yet again that involves a man....big surprise hey girls? Theres this guy who I go way back with we've been on again off again for years. The thing is that hes gotten really good at pushing me away for whatever reasons he feels like he needs to. I understand this, I'm WAY too forgiving of all the people in my life. I care about him a lot and hes one of only 2 people in the world I can really talk to and I feel like really understands. Theres only few times where he really opens up to me and I feel like its really the REAL him. Last night was one of those times. I feel like if he would just let me be a friend that we could really be good friends and help eachother figure out some of our demons and why we are the way we are. I'm just scared hes going to pull away again and I don't know how to prevent this. So I need advice on how not to let him pull away, I want to help him get thru his issues and I want to have him there to help me thru mine. The thing is the more I push the more he pulls away. My tendency is to cling and his tendancy is to run...it doesn't work well together!!!!!!! So how can you try and get a better closer friendship without pushing and without scaring him off? Please help, I'm not sure I can do this without him in my life! The only other person I can talk to lives 5 or 6 hours away.
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