I have been seeing this guy for awhile and i like him alot. however he doesn't know about my SI. He has seen the scars on my arms and asked but i've just changed the subject or given him the same excuses as everyone else. I feel like I should tell him the truth, but I'm terrified of what he'll think of me. I don't want him to leave me. It's hard too because I havent' cut in over two months now and I'm starting to feel like its part of my past. This makes me wonder if i even have to tell him. I really don't know what to do. And if I decide to tell him I have no idea what to say or even where to begin. I feel like him knowing will change everything about our relationship. But I would rather loose him now than later, and I think it would be better if I told him than if he found out some other way. Please help. I really dont know what to do.
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