okay ever think like that i know you hear all the time but really dont think like that because once people see your like that then they are really going to look at you weird but have you ever try to get back it a friend relationship like maybe ask some who really is outgoing and ask them if they would like to see a movie . now about the perfect student crap . who ever says you have to be perfect is crazy because nobody is perfect and whoever is telling you that maybe need to walk in your shoes. sorry i know its not what you want to hear but that what i have to say.

I understand feeling a lot of pressure, that must be really stressful. I really empathise as I am struggling with work loads too. But you know what I said to my lecturer? I said look, I feel too much stress and too much pressure on me to do this, I am having problems and I'm only going to get sicker if I don't relax. She totally understood, I think honesty is the best policy.

i just dont know if i feel comfortable talking to any of lecturers about this. i have a reading week next week so maybe things will ease off then. i hope.

WE ARE YOUR FRIENDS AND IF THE OTHERS AROUND YOU DON'T WANT TO BE AROUND YOU THEY WEREN'T TRUE FRIENDS TO BEGIN WITH!! WE LOVE YOU!!!

as a mum i can guarantee u there is no such thing as perfect daughter!!mums want best 4 child but not at cost of their happiness!ur parents will love u warts and all and its more likely that u want 2 be the perfect daughter more than they want u 2 be- they just want u 2 be happy so if ur not tell them. u wont be a student 4 long so when it gets u down try telling urself that.dont beat urself up so much- sounds 2 me like u have lot going 4 u. u r at uni and thats more than most people do with their lives. its hard now but u have so much 2 look forward 2 when u graduate- life will get easier

i agree with sheba! We are here for you. I am in uni atm and have rports and stuff due like yesterday (feels like) and i am so stressed out with everything going on, i totally understand where you are coming from. MAybe together we can cope. If we all help each other stay afloat, none of us will drown.

thanks everyone sometimes its just so stressful here and it doesnt seem like i am getting anywhere. i supose it because i am the first person in either side in my family to go to university and my parents are sacrificing so much for me to be here and i just dont want to let them down.

there's pleanty of point in carrying on, because things do get better. eventually it will. hang on in there. put up with the pressure. it's all for a reason
xxx