Self-Injury Support Group

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i think i need help!

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i don't know what to do the pain is unbarable so many poeple gone so many lives lost so many memories racing through my mind no time for slowing down too many lies too many bad times the urge to hurt myself to make me feel better no contact with people who i can talk to no one understands crying blood tears flashbacks pain so i cut deeper and pass out. wake up in poll of blood crying. just happened and i think i need to go to the hospital but can't tell aunt or uncle what i did! this is so hard i feel so helpless andit feels as if there's no hope.i just want to die pain unbearable. want to die... want to kill myself.... i just don't know
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Please don't kill yourself. That's not the answer. I care.
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dieing is not an option! you have friends here that can make more of a difference in your life more than you know, im here for you!
btw i know exactly how you feel!
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honey are you ok? whats going on?
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girl hospital may be the safe option just for now. cliche i know but... u have a choice wat thought come into ur mind, u can change them. focus on good times, good things in this world (wen u think hard enough, there ARE good things in this world. i felt like dat a couple weeks ago, maajor relapse, almost killed myself. but u need to fight this thing. try this hun... put in a appliation if u want www.mercyministries.org

just force a smile, get together with some friends, watch movies and eat junk food, distract urself from sadness.. wen the time comes wen u have the people to help u deal with it, do it. im here to talk if u need to n e time xo
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that's a hard place to be. unfortunately when i was at my lowest point, nobody could convince me that things would get better. i got lucky and got on a med that helped me. my life changed around in ways i never would have imagined, so don't believe things will never change. they can. sometimes the best thing you can do is to bear it if trying to do anything is asking for too much. i feel for you. all i can say is just try to wait it out. try getting on a new medication. don't go through this alone, though, for sure. put your pride aside and get help from others.
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The pain being more than you can bear is only temporary.

You will either grow stronger or the pain will die down... it is inevitable.

If you kill yourself, you will NOT be able to feel the RELIEF you are so desperately seeking.

This day too shall pass...
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yea i agree with silentviolin, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. i know wat its like to not care at all, but the future is worth waiting to see. u have a choice to make ur life better each moment of ur life. it doesnt mean its gona be easy, just means that u CAN change urself, not ppl around u unfortunatly, just urself... dat can make all the difference.
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yea i agree with silentviolin, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. i know wat its like to not care at all, but the future is worth waiting to see. u have a choice to make ur life better each moment of ur life. it doesnt mean its gona be easy, just means that u CAN change urself, not ppl around u unfortunatly, just urself... dat can make all the difference.
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